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The Work That Outlives You: Succession, Stewardship, and the Courage to Let Go
You are standing in the middle of a relay race you did not start and will not finish. This essay is about what you owe the people who ran before you and what you're building for the ones who come after.
Tom Kooy
Feb 232 min read


When Intelligence Becomes Abundant: How artificial intelligence is forcing a deeper question, not about what machines can do, but about what humans are for?
This latest essay explores why the coming renaissance may be less technological and more human. Not about what machines can do, but about what remains uniquely human when knowledge is everywhere.
Tom Kooy
Feb 101 min read


The Cost of Being the Adult in the Room: On hard decisions, competing values, and the price of protecting what matters.
On Substack - In my latest essay, I explore what leadership actually looks like. Whatever the organisation, the same pressures play out, identity, expectation, fear, belonging, and the quiet weight of decisions that don’t always have perfect outcomes...
Tom Kooy
Feb 21 min read


Kids Are Hyper-Connected, But Quietly Alone: Some thoughts from a small town.
Something has shifted in childhood, and most parents and educators can feel it even if they struggle to name it.
Tom Kooy
Jan 229 min read


Why We Look Away: Eye contact, distraction, and the loss of depth.
Real eye contact feels rare now. Not absent, just quietly avoided. We still glance at each other, enough to register a face, not enough to stay. Long enough to be polite. Not long enough to be changed.
Tom Kooy
Jan 1812 min read


The Psychology of Desire in an Attention-Starved World
Desire is one of the few human experiences not fully domesticated by modern life. It is still alive to sensation, responsive and awake to those moments when time seems to slow.
Tom Kooy
Jan 75 min read


Present Joy Is a Practice: On First Principles and Lasting Habits for 2026.
And in this pause, once the food is eaten, the drinks are finished, the conversations had, what’s real tends to hold its shape. And what was being held together by adrenaline, distraction, or sheer momentum starts to crack. That’s not failure. That is data to use. We tend to treat this moment as a time to set goals for the year to come. Outcomes. Targets. Resolutions. What do I want to achieve in 2026?
Tom Kooy
Dec 28, 20257 min read


Why Masculinity Isn’t Broken, Just Untrained...
Something is breaking inside the modern man, and he knows it. It’s not dramatic. It’s quiet.
Tom Kooy
Nov 10, 202510 min read


The Silent Majority: The Builders History Forgets
There’s a pattern in every regional town. The ones who build the most, speak the least. And the ones who speak the most, often build nothing at all.
Tom Kooy
Oct 8, 20256 min read


The Strength of Teams and the Cost of Disruption
Think about the visuals of a team room at half-time. The scoreboard is close. The air is thick with sweat and adrenaline. The walls hum with tension. The captain stands, not to shout orders, but to remind the group: stay in your role, trust each other, keep the shape.
Tom Kooy
Aug 26, 20255 min read


Turning the Tide: A Regional Perspective on Turnaround Strategy
Turnaround is what happens when people stop talking and start dragging broken things back into motion. It’s vision + grit + momentum. Done right? It doesn’t just save a business. It revives a street. A town. A narrative.
Tom Kooy
May 8, 20256 min read
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